Love, the flavor of the season, with the
Valentine’s day just around the corner… the times have changed, romance has undergone changes rapidly and in all rapid changes it feels nice to have a loved one on the bench next to you…that is a matured golden love which has seen you through all the ups and downs of life…Love is also a manifestation of missing that someone special who is now no more…so many forms of love…But today we shall go beyond this special personal bond of delight…more towards the feeling called love! With each emotion we tend to attach some other subtle tag that of expectation, that of want or obligation. But when tagged with love it creates tensions, unpleasant reactions…hence we shall see love without its tags, free of expectation and in its pure pristine form.
Love without a reason, love without obligation, love without a cause…causeless love! It’s blissful and true. A child born is capable of this causeless love as its energies are not based on any opinions or logic or selfish interest. As we grow we start plotting all emotions including love on a graph of want and demand…that makes us unhappy, takes us further away from our own inner self. Our core recognizes true causeless love, it’s not an option to nurture this love, and it’s within us, all of us.
To each thing, person or circumstance we encounter instead of asking ourselves what we stand to gain from it, if for once we ask ourselves how can contribute to it, it would reawaken that spring of causeless love in us! How to better circumstances, how to improve lives, how to contribute to society…All these questions lead us to creating a synergy which in turn starts affecting all around us. This is that catalyst which has the power to transform situations, lives and circumstances. We see misery, squalor, failed relations, rotting governmental systems and apathy all around us. If we chose to merely ignore or complain about it, it just means we are simply being passive. The right way would be asking ourselves how we can better the situation, maybe not the whole system but some parts we can change, alter and make them better for us and all those around!
Contributing towards positivity without thinking about returns, sowing good deeds, and good words without expectations from others, all these are manifestations of true causeless love. It makes us more humane, more peaceful and more loving. With age we learn the importance of this love, our grandparents epitomize this love to some extent, we need the younger generation to understand and appreciate this love, this very universal human feeling. Caring for people around us, tending to their needs and being of some help to them, bringing a smile to their lips! It creates so much joy in our own hearts!
We have been experiencing this joy every single day! Our foundation strives to better the lives of the senior citizens, give them a home away from home in form of
Nana Nani Parks. And the Foundation came to be built on the ethos of betterment of society, of contributing positively to society, not expecting anything in return! Our parks give us immense joy and pleasure, that love now rules all our decisions and drives us forth to reach out to more senior citizens and transform their lives…
Today we have set forth to reach out to the youth on the eve of
Valentine’s Day; to teach them the power of causeless love, the power of loving and accepting their parents and grandparents and caring for the aged in the society at large. This expression of love is of the highest order; it in a way uplifts the giver and receiver to an altogether different plane of bliss.
The beauty of causeless love is such that the more we contribute selflessly towards society and its betterment the more joy we earn out of it, the more in touch we are with our own inner core, the more human we become!
Let us all embrace love not as a mere mortal passing emotion but as an all encompassing way of life.
• We at the Nana Nani Foundation are celebrating Valentine’s Day in a very unique style this year! Along with
HelpAge India we are organizing this unique celebration at our Aaji Ajoba Udyan where we are inviting the youth to come and profess respect and love for the evergreen Nana Nanis and Aaji Aajobas.
• This blogpost is based on an article”Causeless Love is the Ultimate” by Paramahamsa Nithyananda published in the
Economic Times.